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If one learned to remember – then when should we do it?  There is one thing about parenting I just realized. My youngest daughter said to me “Mum how I am supposed to remember things that I forget”. I had to think about that because I put myself into the mind of asking that exact question and I came up with – often I don’t remember something; it’s not that I forget, but then who reminds us to remember? How do we remember as adults? We have things in place to remind us, but how often do we rely on part of our brain to recall things that are important and recall those things timely? We have to remember everyday to look at the calendar or the diary; but for children? I pondered that thought and thought – wow; I have not forgotten things – I just haven’t remembered them. There are the easy things like – wake up, get up, get dressed, make your bed, put your pj’s away, choose breakfast – eat breakfast, pick up your lunch, clean your teeth, wash your face, pack the bag – what goes in the bag; homework, library books, get your hat … the list is endless & it reverses itself at the end of the day. To teach an 8 year old child to prompt her memory of things she must be aware of changing conditions everyday – not the fixed; but the changing – for example, … the “wear the dress on Thursday it’s Choir” – but take shorts as well, after school is Cricket – it is a huge dynamic; especially when she needs to be aware of her external world at the same time. No wonder they have random unexplainable sick days! That’s my daily dilemma and my challenge to remember as her parent in a chaordic world.

As I was emailing an expression of interest & out of interest I happened to see a @612brisbane tweet flash by my page asking questions to listeners about “what age do we leave our children alone at home” – my response was automatically coupled by the page I turned in local paper moments before – so I scanned it and these are the thoughts that I have as type.

Does it matter what age we leave our children alone? look what is happening by bringing information into the home! do we care enough about how information is expressed? in which format? in which area? this scares me this image;  I am only too happy that these children are not mine on this page! my daughter was horrified when I asked her opinion of the news upon the page.

If these children were mine? what would I do? The minding of the frame is just terribly wrong here – it sends incongruent messages and we wonder why children grow up messed up?

I am not a contemporary thinker –why do you think that? – it is a blessing to have those in life that do challenge ways of being; not criticizing or analyzing just wonderizing.  I woke to this knowing of what the answer is for me.

Using critical thought is a behavioral understanding that is only applied when the method of  an “outcome” is desired.  Therefore to me everything else is “as it is – as it becomes” and is; uniquely random.

To develop an understanding of the work that must be done on earth is to be empowered with the purpose that is required to do it.   To create social change is to understand the environments we move, integrate and create within.

I guess synthesized information can only come about once aligned with a purpose to identify, retrieve  and collaborate it.  The discipline in balanced life is not to think critically but to know how to act in the situation or environment that calls within the framework.  This is the way I relate theory into practice and say “I’m not a contemporary thinker”  – I am only a temporary thinker; within the freedom of my mind.

On application of who I am and what I do is not preformed – only aligned with a purpose; and that is to raise the condition of humanity.  I do this through the sanctum of my mind and forficate through the channel of mental health.

Understanding health issues are not known until they become dis-ease – spiritually understanding as a cultural diversity .

Hopefully spiritually aligned workers will see that the livelihood to create social change is done through the deeper cultural experience of living in a shared conception of morality – in the way we organize ourselves and the way in which we interact with our environment .  “Cultural diversity is as necessary for humankind as biodiversity is for nature”.

My Values – My Morals – A concept – My Culture

My Culture is the by-product of my Values.

Sharon A Stocker 2009

Another random post from my manicured moments partly partaken within my day.

An experience I wanted to write about now has it’s space to interface and connect my remembered dots and hope someone reads and understands how transparency in the community is so “oh fake”.

An interesting event occurred today for someone that could have had the potential for a few people to get angry and emit alot of red-carbon; anger.

The scene is a parking lot whereby at Chermside Library there is also a swimming pool which shares a very close proximity – it’s called Splash Leisure.

About to leave the center I was chatting outside the gate when a car pulled up and parked immediately in a parking area which is not supposed to be parked in.  The writing is barely there – however!

The person came and asked me can I park here? Gee by the looks of the sign I wouldn’t think so.   The person then said to me – well what about that vehicle next to mine; he is parked on some lettering on the concrete.  Apparently that is his responsibility based on his interpreted information – what else could I say?.  I offered this guy to take my park once I reversed; slowly I watched him move his vehicle and saw him put on his specs; I thought to myself – that guy probably cannot see that well and it probably doesn’t help matters when messages on the concrete are kind of, well – in bad condition and need application.

To make matters more challenging the bloke was Asian; which could have a another impact on him – when really it was a council issue to begin with; it’s beyond contemporary thought; but within responsible thinking methods to sort out simple issues so people can understand public information.  We live in a cultural diversity – isn’t it about time people realized that?

Friendship is a connection made at a point of time where two threads of information come together connected by an event that both share in common at that point in time.  “We met on the train; she fell over and a CD fell out of her bag that I just love” – we instantly struck up conversation.

As time goes by and the thread of friendship connects at different points in time – those times satisfy a requirement for both energies to share and become a united one.

Sometimes friendship is over-rated because sometimes the one of the other should not depend upon the “friendship” to satisfy a requirement when the other isn’t available.  What happens then? Well, what happens then is courage sets in and connections are made to satisfy a momental time of companionship.  This companionship neither is friendship or love – it simply is a connection in time; within the period as a conscious companionship.  When the company is parted; the segment is over – for the time and beyond that period.  People that identify this often think these moments are angelic.  Maybe they are.

Friendship is a renounceable verb .  Companionship is a connection threaded by a period in time shared as a friendship within that time.  It’s a quantum concept.

If it were that as children we were enabled this simple understanding then all company would be fine; no expectation would fail our assumptions and assumptions would cease to exist.  We wouldn’t miss our friends because we would understand that friendship exists within a frame – that’s it.  We enjoy the company of others ; however, we don’t own the attachment.

Consciously continuing continuum within the company of self and always inspired by the company that frequently I am fortuned to enjoy.  Sharon.

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