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How ODD - Life in Animation

I replied Why Gen? - not Gen Y. How absolutely Odd!?

You know I am having this conversation with myself as I don’t understand the way in which my parents expect me to act.

It is absolutely Odd. Today “Odd” is an assumed an acronym for Oppositional Defiant Disorder. How Odd!

Being 12 years of age and assuming the behaviour of my parents – why would I respect their model?

They say I am defiant. What is defiant? Defiant I guess “in their eyes” is a noun for “not acting in the way in which is required” – according to them!. I wonder what is required when I have been programmed all my 12 years to follow, listen, and do what my parents want?

To me it is “Odd” that they expect this type of respect when they don’t example it first! Why would I copy their projection of self-assumed stress? When really they are just trying their best to update their own model! – No wonder they want the latest clothes and the latest 4-wheel drive! What a joke, on whom?

Now talk about stress! How funny, before stress becomes stress it must be something prior – otherwise my parents would not be stressed! – don’t you agree?

If they looked through instead of at then they would “see” that distressed might be a better term for them to cope with! Prefix to stress … get it?

Surely, one does not have to be Einstein to work that out. On the other hand, do they? … I worked that out when I was 12 … why is it still prevalent? Because those that are have stayed behind – not forging beyond, putting behind – behind them! – Too busy chasing their ass around like some kind of donkey on a goose chase to nothing getting nowhere – only around and around like some mindless merry-go-round at a theme park. How funny!

When is someone going to tell them to understand the aspect of their mind that promotes and escalates an anxiety that transcend itself from the “sub” below to the surface? It is not that difficult to work out at 12.

I have observed my parents. I watch them act and re-act. I watch them recognize their stuff by behaviourizing it – somewhat far from verbalizing it. Then in addition, I understand that maybe they do not know how!

It is so funny when a child re-acts with no conscious knowing because “it” the kid has not been “taught” the skill of feeling recognition and verbalizing it! The Mum just takes over and scolds or be-littles him! How ignorant. I am 12.

Lets face it most kids – me definitely (defiant) ha ha … included are told to “be quiet” – isn’t that a force into the sub?

When I was 12.

Prepare your Child?

Pardon me. I cannot sit by and do nothing about what I have observed in this book! A method of learning that “provokes” and “promotes” self measurement using the words “beautiful” and “ugly” - with an image to descript!

What is the world teaching it’s young? - we say “No” to discrimination - we want Obama to lead in the USA, Oprah does the world an Honour and then we still have “publications” such as this in print.

Please. No. This is terrible! can you imagine a child going through this book, getting to this page and then measuring him/herself against the imagery? goodness me, it’s awful. This sort of publication should be “banned” - I don’t say “banned” in the total sense, however banned in the sense of the “nature” displayed below within the picture. I adapted the front cover and cut some pages to illustrate meaning to the terror - and believe me, it is - actually, victimisation.

My god, many of my friends are beautifully coloured and it harms me greatly when they say they feel less than great because of the colour of their skin. This sort of publication has the ability to manifest a generation of these sort of people just by the nature of the “judgement”.

My children were horrified when I pointed this out to them. Are you? … there is no more to be said other than “dear me” Oprah and Obama what are your views? these children are Indian. I know our views as a multi-cultural family are that of absolute disgust and sadness of such damage to little souls in society. I have cut out a page within called “Public Signs” within the book (to illustrate here) - there are no signs there about “emotional damage”.

It’s a Pre-gravitational Event Nancy!

A mother in her early 30’s with a child of 3 years rushed into work exclaiming “I’m pregnant”! obviously quite excited by the news of an inner “event” she then quickly went onto saying that she is thinking of where to “send” the baby once it is born.

Isn’t that weird? Or is it the “new” kind of normal? What is normal? It’s been going on for years, but no-one slows down to “identify it”.

One thing for sure – the woman, whom is 5 weeks pregnant, has just “sold out” the soul that is within. Growing in an environment that is safe, warm and nutritious. The womb.

What that baby is also aware of – on another level is that his/her Mum is already so far ahead in her head that she cannot appreciate and nurture the present! Now. A baby needs now to enable itself to “understand” later. Later I refer to as ex-womb. No womb for turning back then!.

After saying that I am aware that there are some souls returning – as they do – in different physical bodies – as they would, are returning with life skills required to learn in a new lifetime. Now.

Many of the children that are in incubation right now – and there are many! –  floating just,  simply “being” and learning from the experience that their Mum is having during the period of “inside” (pregnancy) neuro-learning.  Once baby has its big day out – then lookout Mum, lookout Dad, that child is on a mission on planet earth - and baby will plan it!

Dust mites can sadly affect and turn a simple household chore into a nightmare for the parents causing an allergy for life for that child. It is just that simple. It is the big picture folks – do not take care of everything important you will be given “signs” that couple with nature and impart “within” a human nature a form in the physical body - allergy an (all-urgence*).

Also, remembering that what you believe will exist. Believe what I say and less importance will be upon the by-product (the child) and more so emphasis on daily “house-keeping” and it needn’t be daily! I used to be a

freq in that area. Now I am just aware of “obvious” things that are required for cleaning each week – not everyday! The only thing that ever gets done, that I consider chores are mopping the floors with a sanitary type cleaner and doing the washing and hanging it out.

This little baby once born - should these conditions “not” change “within” the mother shall circumvent some basic “memory” for him/her. It is random but it is how it seems and gets accessed when the little person is at a stage when it requires “attention”. Be will have - or should I type - behave?. One-day people will smarten up and get with the program.

At it tude displays itself in behaviour, however it’s the be that has first, so no be! then no have! you just end up with behaviour. Attention Addicted in another Dimension - there are heaps of “labels” to affix!.

Finding this seriously sad, I am comforted by knowing that this is the life cycle of humanity. Look for something “out-there” to comfort “in-here” in this story - a baby. Then it becomes out-there, something for “in-there” to really think about.

*all-urgence: an analogy that represents an allergy prior to form of cause due to some primary false evidence appearing real.

If Patience was an Exercise would you be out of Breath?

Could you imagine if Patience was an exercise?
Jim was your Partner
and exercise was a Role-Model and the model was you?

Is Communication the letdown of their break and drown?

 

Maternal Matters Most

Please accept this typed inspiration as I recently read an article in the Brisbane’s Child May Edition (link to referring article is available by clicking upon the previous 2 words before the open bracket).

“How well do we rear our young when such little “real” value is placed upon Mothering? There is no social advancement when a mother feels inferior for choosing to stay at home and rear her young, instead of paying someone else to do it”.

“How can you stay at home with your kids all day? It’s boring, it’s not stimulating, you’ll go brain dead… it is a common sentiment”.

On behalf of myself and other “stay at home Mums” I offer the following …

For a start “stimulation is something that is expected” I would contribute for consideration the word “stimulus”.

 

Stimulus is what a child is exposed to in every condition of its being - in the early stages of life. Stimulation is a manufactured emotion which has prior knowledge of being first “stimulated”. A child knows “stimulus” – what occurs after “stimulus” is a result of how you “encourage” your child to interpret his/her environment.

This in itself “some engaging” parents find “invigorating”. A child goes to pick up a bug – do we scream? Or do we say “what courage you have in discovering an insect” yes!

Sounds so adult doesn’t it! In our closed little world of “parasites” – as Holly Guy made reference to Simone de Beauvoir and her “assumptions”.

There is – ofcourse social evolvement. I can add this to the previous statement because I am a stay-at-home Mum – working, inside the fence lines for 12 years now. So financially I don’t contribute. I am sent-a-link from the government in terms of income-support and although we live a frugal life we lead an extremely content life. I am sure the Australian Government would not degrade my motherly working capacity in this “civic” role within society.

“Is it really difficult in this culture to be “just” a mother?” (quoted from BC) well, I am an optiMUM so I say, no it isn’t – why? Because I accepted a long time ago that I could choose to continue a pregnancy or I had the choice to not too.

I think that “pride & ego” senses that “to be” something or in “order” to been seen as “something” one must “income” a wage.

I also think that this is a belief that many choose to adopt and forget to accept that motherhood is an institution of Patience and Virtue – Honour & Respect. From my viewpoint I accept that if I didn’t come first then hardly would I have become a mother initially! I mean get your head around that pie.

We love our little books of wisdom which allow us to find ways to cope with the busy demands of our life – but hang on …. isn’t this a contradiction to the simple life lessons of motherhood if we didn’t push the limits?

After reading a Mothers Judgement I do find it hilarious in closing to observe the text “No we have our health spas, expensive seminars, retreats and holidays to find ourselves” …

If we rallied for a fairer disposition of family life we would recognise – as I do – that after all – spend 10years at home with your offspring – learn Patience, exercise Courage and impart hope and enthusiasm – less important, will become the mortgage, cars, restaurants, theatre and plasma televisions. Happiness is as Contentment seems.

Round and round I watch them go. Rama is the Hindu God whom observes people act out their Drama – be spiritual – do not look for spirituality for this could be the Dharma that may keep you calmer. When did I learn this? At home maintaining and “managing” my time as domestic engineer and minding my own business and being aware here and now. I have some time on my hands now so I can participate in this way and share my “experience” which has indeed paid me golden dividends. Absolutely wonder full children and remarkable family togetherness.

Do I feel like a diminished Citizen? No way! - Funnily enough whilst most people are out there talking about this - the real workers are behind closed doors taking care of raising their children, and that is why they are rarely heard from. Not that easy keeping up with technology and taking care of children at their developmental ages.

I am A Citizen in favour of Reform for Parenting/Work Choices for the future of all people.