What is Sex Mummy? Untruths Cut like a Knife
I type this because I believe through my lived experience that Untruths have the possibility to cut like a knife later on in life if not confronted initially when the subject arises. The subject arises because it requires response - not rejection of information. My daughter was 6 years of age when the conversation following was observed.
Why do people use the word sex as a term of action? It’s not a term of action it’s a term of differentiation between Male and Female. Dialogue is so important to children - they build their world “using” it. There is a usage problem - which can be utterley useless; actually utterly acute. I cannot find satisfaction in any meaning for dialogue. I would have to use another word; semantics and even then maybe it is more appropriate to use linguistics. God, no wonder the average Jo (me) has to take it easy to work this mess out - for my children.
The mechanics of Intercourse is of-course the passage where the two sexes meet physically in social interaction.
I explained to my 6 year old daughter that people or humanity are of a “sex” - it is a gender identification. Either Male or Female and intercourse is the social action that adults have when they are a mature adult.
She was happy with that explanation. I observed her thinking. I added - you can ask me whatever you like when you need to know more – is that okay? she replied “yes Mummy thank you”.
Now she can go tell her friends and I have no issue with what she tells them. Better than her coming home to me saying “oh Mummy” I learnt about sexing today - what rubbish to distract a learning mind.
My suggestion in giving this type of information is that the information are “words” yet to be discovered. Give the words and you give the child “curiosity” to find out what the words mean.
More precise penetration of information is required for the educational growth of our youth.
This may appear harsh, but it’s a cry for help! not a cry for attention as was taken unfortunately before now. It’s a physical “silent” war cry by the inner battle of mankind; pain is only visible once it’s seen, because only then has the sequence played in order. This view is pain that cuts.
Update:
I have added a “Follow On” to above with a comment to a friend about the subject of “Truth, Understanding and Observations”
“It will be an interesting period of evolution once people understand that humanity are separated by gender and not “labelled” by sex. Something that bothered me for years, however now to the forefront of my present observation.
I discovered this dilemma within societal communication when my daughter asked a few primal questions (mainly above). I was challenged to go to the core and offer her factual information – rather than a few peeks in platitudes“.
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